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The PUAs in manosphere 1.0 used to say, "Hey, watch out, if you're approaching a 6 or 7, don't use the same game techniques you would use on an 8 or 9. For example, if you try to neg a 6 too much, you might just come off as hostile or mean rather than as interesting or intriguing."
So for example, if you were dealing with a 6, you might want to tell her she's cute or whatever, because normally she doesn't hear a lot of compliments, so that would make you stand out from the pack. She might want to be with you because you tell her nice things like that.
What eventually happened was that the manosphere got politicized to the point where men started telling each other, "You're a cuck if you compliment a girl. That just makes you one of her orbiters; she's going to use you for validation while she gets fucked by a Chad who treats her like shit. Chad isn't impressed by her because he's banging girls a lot hotter than her; and when he doesn't compliment her, she senses his high value and wants to get fucked by him."
Hey, maybe in this age where girls are potentially connected to lots of guys via social media, they are getting a lot of compliments they didn't get in times past. Maybe they are giving out less pussy to the nice guys, because they have an instant pipeline to Chad while they're in the prime of their youth.
Nonetheless, one downside to the whole situation is that you can't even really try your own game techniques anymore to see how those work, because there's so much pressure to "be alpha." Most of these alphas, though, will end up getting married or otherwise committed to a chick, and then they're in the position of having to do stereotypically "beta" stuff like tell her how much they value the relationship and whatnot.
If you seem too high-value, it could in some cases get in the way of getting a certain chick because she might think she can't lock you down. So there's that aspect to the situation too. https://incels.wiki/w/Intimidation_of_girls_by_Chad
Anyway, part of what sucks about manosphere 3.0 and beyond is that not only do you get judged harshly for being too beta because it's bad for you and doesn't attract chicks, but men will also, if they think you're being too much of a simp, claim you're doing other men a disservice by blowing up chicks' egos. This social pressure takes away a lot of our freedom of action to behave as we want toward chicks, which we should be allowed to do in a true patriarchy, kind of like how true feminism would allow chicks to be housewives if they wanted to.
So for example, if you were dealing with a 6, you might want to tell her she's cute or whatever, because normally she doesn't hear a lot of compliments, so that would make you stand out from the pack. She might want to be with you because you tell her nice things like that.
What eventually happened was that the manosphere got politicized to the point where men started telling each other, "You're a cuck if you compliment a girl. That just makes you one of her orbiters; she's going to use you for validation while she gets fucked by a Chad who treats her like shit. Chad isn't impressed by her because he's banging girls a lot hotter than her; and when he doesn't compliment her, she senses his high value and wants to get fucked by him."
Hey, maybe in this age where girls are potentially connected to lots of guys via social media, they are getting a lot of compliments they didn't get in times past. Maybe they are giving out less pussy to the nice guys, because they have an instant pipeline to Chad while they're in the prime of their youth.
Nonetheless, one downside to the whole situation is that you can't even really try your own game techniques anymore to see how those work, because there's so much pressure to "be alpha." Most of these alphas, though, will end up getting married or otherwise committed to a chick, and then they're in the position of having to do stereotypically "beta" stuff like tell her how much they value the relationship and whatnot.
If you seem too high-value, it could in some cases get in the way of getting a certain chick because she might think she can't lock you down. So there's that aspect to the situation too. https://incels.wiki/w/Intimidation_of_girls_by_Chad
Anyway, part of what sucks about manosphere 3.0 and beyond is that not only do you get judged harshly for being too beta because it's bad for you and doesn't attract chicks, but men will also, if they think you're being too much of a simp, claim you're doing other men a disservice by blowing up chicks' egos. This social pressure takes away a lot of our freedom of action to behave as we want toward chicks, which we should be allowed to do in a true patriarchy, kind of like how true feminism would allow chicks to be housewives if they wanted to.